Stop Beating Yourself Up – You Freaken Rock!

I went for a walk with my family today and for some reason I was thinking about my weigh in on Monday.  I was thinking, I cannot stand to see another standing still week, it would make me feel bad.  I am working so hard to get where I need to and yet its not showing in the numbers.  I thought, what could I do differently? And while I was trying to process those thoughts, my son wanted to show me the spider web on the bridge and I was lost back in my family and looking at things.

Fast forward to Monday,  that dreaded weigh in day.  I can’t even imagine what it was going to say.  Hell I got my period so I figured I was going to gain weight.  I get ready to step on and I think, does that number really matter?  I actually laugh out loud.  I feel helpless and sad that I am so obsessed with the scale, but my OCD makes me get on it anyway. I mean, I can’t not know what I weigh. Right? So to my surprise I dropped over 1lb.  I am officially at 141.8, I was semi excited and then instantly sad because I wasn’t under the 140 mark again.

As I am doing my semi happy losing weight dance, I stop and yes, I truly stop in the middle of getting low. While I was so focused on the weight loss, I completely didn’t even realize for weeks I had been under my pre-pregnancy weight from my first child. With Cameron (my son and first born) I was 153 on the day I found out I was pregnant with him.  I am back to my ending college weight and I didn’t even realize how big of an accomplishment that was because I was too focused on the things I was not accomplishing.  I fit in to pants that I wore in college, I have energy again, I feel happy, I love going out and playing with my kids.  Why am I not celebrating that? Why aren’t you celebrating things you are proud of?

That is a picture of me in pants from college. Those are Silver Jeans that one of my very best college friends, Alicia, let me borrow and I forgot to give them back.  I might still have that muffin top, but hot damn, I haven’t worn them in 7 years. That is amazing progress!

What about you?  Stop beating yourself up.  You will hit each milestone as you continue your journey.  YOU ROCK! Celebrate every milestone you hit.  You and your body deserve that celebration.

Write down 3 things you’re proud of and do a happy dance! I’ll do a happy dance for you too!

Want To Improve Your Health?

Are you wanting to get a little more energy? Feel a little more healthy? Do you want to take better care of yourself and need some pointers? You have come to the right place.

Check out 10 pointers that will help you now.

Choosing a healthy lifestyle can benefit you in several ways. It gives you a boost of energy and makes your body feel more in tune. It is important to identify ways you can improve your health.

  1. Watch what you eat. Seriously, Shay? You think I don’t know this?  If you knew this, you wouldn’t be here right now.  Track your food, I promise you it will help you.  A lot my mommy friends and I use My Fitness Pal to keep track of our food. This is a good tool if you are serious about eating healthier and/or losing weight. Your meals should consist of a healthy daily balance of foods. Knowing your nutritional needs and not eating too much or too little can lead to a more balanced lifestyle. There are several resources to consult in order to determine your body’s needs.
  2. Sleep. When you are sleep-deprived, your body shuts down. And I have learned that the hard way. Make sure that you feel rested from getting an adequate amount of sleep. This will allow your body to function at a consistent and optimal speed every day.
  3. Take vitamins and supplements. Paying attention to where your diet feels lacking. Once you have determined this, you can compensate with vitamins and supplements. And if you want to lose weight effectively, you need a great nutritional shake, go here to check it out.
  4. Exercise. You should exercise at least four or five times per week. Exercise helps your body to build muscle, lose weight and can help prevent illness and disease. If you have never worked out consistently, you should start small.  Start with 15 minutes, 3 days a week and then increase as your body adjusts to it.
  5. Fight addictions. Avoid over or under eating. This can easily disrupt your nutritional balance and cause serious problems.  I know about urges, I love me some chocolate.  I feel that most foods are good in moderation, but eating a whole bag of chips in one sitting is excessive.  Remember why you want to be healthier and lose weight and put that bag of chips down.
  6. Keep learning. There are several different definitions of improving health. Improving heath not only means diets, but there are holistic approaches that can be a part of your lifestyle. Keep researching and studying to determine what is and is not effective to help you in improving and maintaining your health.
  7. Stay motivated. It is easy to begin working on improving our health and it is also easy to discontinue once we don’t see immediate results. A major aspect of improving your health is remaining consistent and motivated in your activities. It is important to make health care an every day priority.
  8. Get the right body measurements. Sometimes the weight does not come off, that is why you would take measurements.  Also, I suggest measuring your body fat.  You can get a body fat calculator on Amazon. Knowing your measurements will help you stay motivated when the scale doesn’t move and it will show you where you’re at and where you should be for your body type.
  9. Build a network. A network includes not only those that can provide information for you, but also support and assist you in building and maintaining health. It is important that you have supportive people around you or you won’t accomplish your goals.
  10. Consult. There are a variety of health care providers and nutritionists that can help you. Or if you just need someone to coach you through, there are a ton of coaches who will help you.

You can help yourself to live a more fulfilled life by improving your health. Knowing what you need to do will help you go in the right direction and as you are making the small changes, you will see more energy and you will feel better.   There is no better time than now to start taking care of yourself and your health.

 

 

Recipe of The Week: Baby Pasta Shells with Asparagus and Marinara Sauce

I made this last night for dinner and it was delicious! I have become a huge fan of SkinnyTaste.  Their recipes are truly scrumptious.  Here is the recipe, enjoy!

Ingredients:

  • 8 oz baby pasta shells (gluten free use brown rice pasta)
  • 1 bunch thin asparagus, tough ends removed
  • 1 1/2 cups homemade marinara sauce
  • 1/4 cup Pecorino Romano
  • salt and fresh pepper to taste

Let’s get to the instructions:

  • Boil about 4 inches of water in a large pot, when boiling add asparagus and cookabout 2 to 3 minutes, or until tender crisp. Drain and chop into small bite sized pieces.
  •  While that is going on, bring a large pot of salted water to a boil (you can use the same pot from the asparagus not to dirty too many dishes). Cook pasta according to package directions for al dente
  • While pasta is cooking, in a medium saucepan heat 1-1/2 cups marinara sauce. Drainpasta and RESERVE a cup of the pasta water.
  • Return pasta back to the pot and toss with marinara, asparagus, grated cheese, salt and pepper and a 1/4 cup of the pasta water or as needed to loosen the sauce. Divide between four bowls and top with fresh pepper and more grated cheese if desired.

Doesn’t that sound delicious?  To find out about the homemade marinara sauce. You can click here to go to their website to see.

What is in a Visalus Protein Shake?

I get that question a lot about what is in the Visalus Shakes and I wanted to create a post I could refer people back to, so you could see for yourself.  Check out all the nutrients you are getting when you take one Visalus shake.

As you can see there are so many great things in the shakes for you and for moms who are pregnant or breastfeeding they are safe to take as well.  I am NOT a doctor, but I did take them while I was pregnant and breastfeeding and I did not have any side effects.  Always consult your doctor before starting anything, but I am sharing my personal story.

Another great video that goes in to more detail is on the Lifestyle for Health YouTube page.  This is a great detailed oriented video that will help you understand the shakes better.  You can also get the Visalus Shake Ingredient List to see what is in the shakes.

And I know it can be hard to get motivated, so if you need some motivation or a pep talk to get you going with your workout and weight loss journey check out my No More Excuses blog.

If you have questions or you want to join the challenge, please feel free to give me a call at 262-372-2140 or click on the join the challenge button below. Have a great day!

Join Me For My Weight Loss Webinar Explaining my 90 Day Challenge

I love this company more and more every day and I cannot wait for you to find out why you will love it too.  Not only do I have more energy when I take my shakes, but I work with some awesome people and the owners are pretty easy on the eyes too.

Delicious, huh?  Yep, I know! Anyway,  I do not just do the weight loss portion, I do the business portion. Honestly, last year I lacked at what I was supposed to with weight loss because of my lack of schedule and self-control.  This year is going to be different because there has been a fire lit under my ass and I am ready to do this for me.

What I love is that, this company went from $31 million sales in 2010 to over $230 million in sales om 2011.  The celebrities that are on the challenge and promoting it for FREE is amazing too: Hulk Hogan,  Pro MMA Fighter Rich Rigmaden, Alfonso Ribeiro — yes Carlton from the Fresh Prince of Bel Air,  Ultimate Fighting Championship’s Brandon Vera, Delaney Cattano and those are just a few of the names on the challenge and/or promoting it.

I want to help you make an informed decision about Visalus and the 90 Day Challenge which is why I am going to be hosting a webinar this Wednesday at 8pm CST.  I will go over what Visalus is, how it works and pricing for these amazing shakes.  It will be an hour at the most and super informational.

You can access the webinar here by clicking here.   When you come, make sure you enter as a guest and please have your questions ready.  I love answering questions and if I do not have the answer, I will find it for you.

I’d love to have you… I can’t wait to see you there :)

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